Femininity and sexuality are two different things. And, there is a marked difference between accentuating the female form and revealing it.

The dress in the first pic accentuates the body’s curves with soft, draping material. This dress is feminine. The dress in the second pic simply reveals the body (along with the unfortunate choice of undergarment). This dress is just tight and there is nothing feminine about it.

Accept it or not, the way in which you present yourself to the world, namely, your manner of dress, discloses your level of self respect to everyone.

It also tells men exactly where your head is and what you’re more than likely willing to accept.