If the person exiting before you does not hold the door for you, do you

a.  Think he or she doesn’t like me because I’m ______ . Indicates low self esteem.

b.  Think he or she did that on purpose – he or she saw me coming. Indicates inflated self importance or arrogance.

c.   Hold the door for the person behind you. Indicates humility.


virtue (n) an example of moral goodness or excellence.

humble (adj) marked by meekness or modesty in behavior, attitude, or spirit; not arrogant or prideful.

humility (n) a virtue; the quality or condition of being humble.

True humility is intelligent self respect which keeps us from thinking too highly or too meanly of ourselves. It makes us modest by reminding us how far we have come short of what we can be. – Ralph W. Sockman

It is far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without your help.  – Unknown

Always remember that you’re unique. Just like everyone else. – Unknown