To begrudge another woman’s status, education, possessions, appearance, etc.

highlights not only the fact that you don’t have it

but also that you want what she has yet

  • are either unable or unwilling to do what it takes to get it and
  • are negatively affected by the fact that she has it.

This, by far, is the most effective way to broadcast your personal insecurities and shortcomings.

Just know that this knowledge can and will probably be used against you.

Hint: If you don’t have anything nice to say, best not to say anything at all.

(includes the side eye, grimaces, and spiteful behavior)