Dating is supposed to be fun.  It is also a means to learn, grow, and gain experience by relating to men.

If this isn’t happening, you’re doing it wrong 🙂

First, know thyself. This greatly eliminates wasting your time and energy on someone who is not right for you.

Second, respect yourself and others. Avoid any attempt on his part to change you for any reason. Avoid any attempt to change him for any reason.

Third, assess. Be open, present, and your feminine self. Allow him to show and tell you exactly who he is. He knows himself way better than you do. Then, based on his own words and deeds, you decide how to accept him into your life.