At the root, a moral and decent woman is

accountable adj
1. subject to the obligation to report, explain, or justify something; responsible; answerable.
2. capable of being explained; explicable; explainable.

responsible adj
1. liable to be required to give account, as of one’s actions or of the discharge of a duty or trust.
2. able to make moral or rational decisions on one’s own and therefore answerable for one’s behavior.
3. able to be trusted or depended upon; reliable.

fallible adj
1. capable of making an error
2. likely to be erroneous

These three attributes demonstrate character, true strength, and value in self. They are necessary to genuine femininity. The woman who possesses them is extremely attractive to men and she is marriage material.

Her direct opposite will not accept responsibility, lacks accountability, and is infallible. She is  recognizable by a foul attitude, drama, or the declaration of being a “strong, black woman”. She unwittingly exposes major character flaws including insecurity and weakness. And, despite the fact that she would never own up to it, she seals her own fate.