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A beautiful outfit begins with beautiful foundations.
Spring is the perfect time for new lingerie.
Carine Gilson, Damaris, Strumpet & Pink . . . lovely but expensive.
Not necessary.
In this order, focus on
- functionality (it “works” AND disappears under my clothing)
- comfort (I can easily wear this all day and into the evening if I need to)
- beauty (it’s attractive to me AND I feel attractive in it)
Keep it pretty, ladies!
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Love and appreciate your body
You must be comfortable in your own skin. If your self-image is lacking, any attempt at sensuality will appear false.
Be in your body, not your head
Focus on what you are doing and feeling. Experience the moment totally. Forget the past and the future and live fully in the right now.
Try to recall taking a really good stretch after sleeping. The stretch may only last a couple of seconds but while it’s happening, you’re generally not thinking of anything else. You’re just enjoying stretching your muscles out as far as they’ll go and how great it feels to do that. This is what it means to be present – to experience the present moment fully.
Stimulate your senses everyday
Be and see pretty. Adorn yourself and your surroundings. Start small. Try a new lipstick shade and add gloss. Change the boring picture on your computer desktop to a gorgeous landscape or vibrant flowers.
Speak beauty and listen to that which enriches your spirit. Express gratitude daily even if only talking to self. Communicate clearly and pleasantly. Let others be happy to see you coming. And, listen to music and programs that get you going.
Drink in pleasing aromas. Place a small scented candle on your desk at work. You won’t even have to light it to enjoy its fragrance. Keep a scented lotion in your handbag and breathe in its fragrance as you rub it into your skin.
Enjoy good food. It doesn’t have to be expensive. Savor the flavors of a nourishing and satisfying dish. Learn to prepare it and gift someone else with the experience.
Be soft and touchable. Pamper your body. Exfoliate and moisture your skin. Add feminine, flirty accessories to your wardrobe. Experiment with different fabrics and textures and enjoy discovering how they feel on your skin.
Life is meant to be enjoyed. Get on with it!
Sensual – of or pleasing to the corporeal senses; relating to the body rather than the mind or spirit; very often confused with sexual. clarification – Having your hair washed (touch), enjoying a bubble bath with scented candles (smell, touch), and eating a decadent dessert (taste, smell) are all examples of sensual experiences. Where each may or may not lead is another topic but none is intercourse.
Sensuality affects the way that you speak and move, your demeanor, and your approach to life in general. Get in touch with what is sensual for you and incorporate more of it in your life.
Listen. Take note of the sounds that you are exposed to on a daily basis. Try to limit noise as it causes stress. Envelope yourself in the soothing sounds of nature, peaceful, melodic music, or simply peace and quiet. More importantly, speak no evil or remove yourself when and where it is spoken by others.
The sense of smell. The most enjoyable scents are subtle and often catch you by surprise. Experiment with aromatherapy and make use of scented oils, lotions, candles or incense. Even more powerful, cook up a great dish!
Taste. Are you enjoying fresh, healthy, flavorful foods? Elevate your sense of taste and increase your health in the process.
Ooh, the sense of touch. Plush fabrics and high quality silks and cottons all immediately come to mind. However, smooth, soft skin and impeccable grooming are closer at hand. Either way, both cause you to want to touch and be touched.
What’s in sight? Women absolutely thrive in beauty. Neat and clean is a given. Attractive and appropriate dress, proper carriage, and grace lift you to new heights. Lovely, comfortable furnishings in your home with elegant touches throughout help solidify your place there.
Add some simple pleasures to your day and enjoy!
Be Exquisite 